Saturday, November 12, 2011

Fusion 2011

This past weekend was the New England Annual Fall Retreat, Fusion. It was held in Hull, MA as it has been for the past 4 years with Matt Christenot and Tony Merida was the speaker. The topic this year was "Contend...Engaging an Inclusive World with an Exclusive Gospel", to encourage and equip the students to share the gospel with their families, friends and anyone they come in contact with. The four different sessions were on Following Jesus: 3 Crucial Questions, Making Christ Known in a Diverse City, Adoption: the Highest Privilege of the Gospel, and Love: the Final Apologetic.

Some of these sessions stood out more to some than others, but some of the things that stood out in my mind was: when sharing the gospel we need to remember to keep the main things the plain things and the plain things the main things. It doesn't have to bee too complicated. He told us a story, which I can not get out of my head, about how a christian gave a bible to Penn of Penn & Teller after a show and explained the gospel to him. Penn later said that he respected the guy because he shared his faith and said "how much do you have to hate someone to not share with them." That quote just hit me. How much do I have to hate someone to not share with them, even though I don't even know them. One of the final things that had an impact on me was the entire session on adoption and how it is an expression of the gospel. For many this was also impact-full because they had never heard of or thought of adoption in this way and they really enjoyed it. Tony also talked about how adoption was ever God's Plan B. This just made me think about what a sovereign and glorious God that we have. This just made me think about why don't we think in this way and plan on adopting as part of our family because that is how we came into God's family. Listening to this session made me just want to adopt (eventually, Lord willing) that much more. Tony has written a book called Orphanology, which I am excited to read and educate myself more on this topic.

This weekend was a great opportunity to grow our relationships with the students and begin building connections with the freshmen. From where I stand, I could definitely tell that the students who went made deeper connections and are pleased that they went. Of all the games we played this weekend, Pirates Monopoly I believe was the most popular and intense one played. Saturday was a gorgeous, warm (surprisingly) day so I decided to go for a walk on the beach and ended up going for 2 hours. It was a much needed time of peace and relaxation.


As usual we had to take a group picture on the beach and decided that this year we should take a leader's picture too. Well it got a little out of control as usual and we ended up with some funny pictures. 

One of the great things about these retreats though is that we also get to see our friends from around New England and hear about all the things God is doing on the college campuses. Two new couples have joined our collegiate team here, one in Worcester and another at the University of Rhode Island. It was also great to hear how Itamar's group at Becker is growing and God is answering our prayers. We have been praying with her that the Lord would provide a nursing student who wants to see the gospel spread on campus, but also as a way to connect to other nursing students. Well God answered her prayers and brought a freshman nursing student to the collegiate group. Below is a picture of most of the collegiate workers in New England.

Monday, October 31, 2011

Autumn Festivities

There have been a lot of happenings in the past month that have kept me pretty busy; from Apple Picking to Johnny Cake Festivals. It has been a lot of fun.

One of our biggest events for October is Apple Picking because it's fun, cheap and is a great time of fellowship. This year, as usual, we went to Jaswells Farm where we picked some of the best Empire Apples I have tasted. Unfortunately we went a little late this year for the Hay Ride but now we know for next time. We spent a couple hours picking apples, pumpkins, gourds and veggies and then returned to our apartment for the baking of apple delights and the carving of pumpkins. We also spent the afternoon playing Mario Kart Wii.
Allie and I with our Pumpkins

Hannah and I have been trying to attend more festivals and events going on in Rhode Island this year and have been getting better at including students as well just so they can get off campus and explore since they don't have cars. One of the first Festivals we went to was the Scituate Art Festival. It was huge. We were there for a couple hours and did not even see everything. There was everything from food, to jewelry, to antiques and local honey. Anything artsy you can think of, it was there. It was the perfect day too because it was one of those random weekends where even though we were in the Fall season it was 80 degrees out. Before we left though I just had to get a Funnel Cake, and for those of you who think it's the same as a Dough Boy...it's not.



Little Johnny Cakes
The latest festival we have discovered in Rhode Island is the Johnny Cake Festival. Now I had no idea what a Johnny Cake was until about last year I think. I had heard of them and knew they were made of corn but other than that, no clue. For those of you who were like me, a Johnny Cake is basically a pancake made with cornmeal and served with butter. Yes, they have a whole festival for this, although it is much smaller that the Scituate Art Festival it is a great place to find local things. It is held at Kenyon's Grist Mill where the cornmeal is made in North Kingstown, RI. There were vendors set up around the lake and mill with photography, jewelry, food and clothes. One of the most interesting two vendors was the Hannah's Farm Alpacas. They look just like Lamas but they make a funny noise. This place though makes all kinds of things out of the Alpaca wool, which apparently is very warm and expensive. They even had little Alpaca toys for kids. The other booth was the RI Spinners Guild. They were out with their Sheep wool and spinners, spinning away. I knew that they did that stuff in Scotland because I have seen it but I had no idea they still did it here. This festival was better than the Art Festival when it came to local food vendors. There were booths here with local honey, roasted nuts, BBQ sauce, spreads and milk. They even had popping corn for popcorn, which we tried and failed at.
Alpaca Toys

All in all it has been a great month and to end it we had a little Harvest Party to celebrate Fall and Halloween.

Monday, October 17, 2011

Support A Missionary

As many of you know I am currently working as a 102b missionary on Johnson & Wales campus in Providence, RI. Ever since my first year at Johnson & Wales University I have been involved with Spiritual Life; more importantly “Christian Student Fellowship”; here on campus. Through my time and involvement here the Lord has given me a yearning to reach the college students in the United States, and in particular, New England. Providence, Rhode Island, consistently comes up as one of the most unreached cities in America from an evangelistic standpoint. The International Mission Board defines an unreached people group as any people group that is comprised of less than 2% evangelical. A nation within a nation without the gospel and without hope.  According to TheAmericanChurch.org, the percentage of people that actually attended a Gospel-preaching church in Rhode Island was 1.4%! 

Rhode Island has more college students per capita than any other state in the country. Providence alone has five major schools within the city limits: Brown University, Rhode Island College, Providence College, Rhode Island School of Design, and Johnson & Wales University; drawing students from all over the world. This last one, Johnson & Wales, has a student population of nearly 10,000 with less than 100 known Christians, many of whom are not connected to a church or discipleship relationship in any way. Though a completely secular school, I have the opportunity to work with the Protestant Campus Minister as a 10:2b missionary. This position is not only a volunteer opportunity to just help out with collegiate ministry but it is more of a mentorship. I will be working directly under the campus minister and will be learning about ministry, in particular collegiate ministry, and learning the different things I need to be equipped with if I am to continue a life in this area of ministry after my life at Johnson & Wales University.

College students are at formative time in their lives where they are asking many of the questions to which the Gospel directly speaks. The answers they find will shape the rest of their lives. At the same time, college students are at a time in their lives where, by God’s empowerment, they can be fully devoted to the faith as they are not yet settled anywhere. My desire is that students would come to be gripped by the Gospel and devote themselves to the Christ. Lord willing some of these students live the rest of their lives as missionaries wherever the Lord may lead them to next. We want to see some of them purposefully settle in Providence for the purpose of living out the Gospel and reaching Rhode Island. Others we pray will take the Gospel to other places in New England and the ends of the earth.

This past year I was approved by and invited to this collegiate position with the North American Mission Board (NAMB). The position is what NAMB calls an MSCV (Mission Service Corp Volunteer) missionary - a missionary opportunity requiring me to raise financial support that enables me to fully devote myself to ministry. Filling this volunteer position on campus gives me open access to the campus, to help the campus minister in the running of the “Christian Student Fellowship,” in discipling the current students, in particular the girls, and sharing the Gospel with as many to whom the Lord gives an open door.

How can you help? This opportunity is only minimally financed and I need to raise a minimum of $10,000 per year. I can only continue as I am supported by people like you. I am asking you to help support me in the mission field. Whether you can give large or small, one time or monthly, I need you. I have made an initial commitment of 2 years with intentions of staying as long as the Lord keeps me in this work. Should you desire to speak with me about this or simply have questions please contact me and I will be happy to talk either in person or otherwise. My cell number is 201-310-7577 and my e-mail is kgdeweij25@gmail.com.  If you are located internationally and would prefer to use Skype my name is futurechef10.

Will you partner with me?  Should you want to give, there is an account number with the North American Mission Board dedicated to me so that if you give to the work then you will receive a tax contribution from that organization and I will receive 100% of the money. The information is at the bottom of this post. Providence, Rhode Island, is a desperate, depressed, and oppressed place when it comes to the Gospel. I need much prayer. Please pray for me even now that God would enable me to carry out this task in the power of His Spirit.

In Christ,                                                       

Give:
North American Mission Board


Attn: Accounting - MSC
PO Box 116543                                                         
Atlanta, GA 30368-6543                                                       
Memo line: Kimberly Vroegindewey - #9732

You can also easily set up a recurring gift on the internet at http://www.namb.net/msc-recurring/

Phone: 201-310-7577


Saturday, October 15, 2011

Oh, The Things You Learn as a Roommate

It's funny the things you learn about someone when you live with them. Hannah has discovered recently that there are some things about me that may seem shocking or you would never expect to come from me. Some of these are: 
  1. I have always wanted purple highlights. (that's right purple)
  2. Some of my favorite shows are Stargate SG-1 and Doctor Who. 
  3. ThinkGeek.com is a sweet site and they have some cool stuff. 
  4. I think the show Top Gear is awesome and I would love to be in those cars when they go 200mph. 
  5. I love British TV.
So apparently these make me geeky and that's ok.
What are some weird hobbies or things that you like? 


Monday, October 10, 2011

Book Review: Stop Dating The Church

For the 10:2b program we have a list of books that we have to read, one of them being Stop Dating the Church, although now it is called Why Church Matters.
I would recommend this book not only to people who are church hoping and think that is ok, but also to the church member. There were things in this book that I had never really thought of before or needed to be reminded of. Here is as brief an overview as I can give you without giving you the whole book, which you should buy for your own library and notes.

Chapter 1: Can This Relationship Be Saved?
Are you a church dater? Do you jump around from church to church? Are you afraid of committing yourself to one place and one group of people? If so, not only are you cheating yourself but the church community and the world as well.
  • The world
    • The church is the vehicle that Jesus chose to take the gospel to every generation and people. 
    • God has invited us to take part in His master plan of redeeming a people for His glory through being a member of a local church. It's our duty, our calling, and our privilege. 
    • The church is also the best place or us to grow spiritually. It's here where God grows us and conforms us to the image of His Son. (He is not only talking about what takes happens in the walls of a worship facility).
  • The church community
    • This is where we learn to love God and others; where we are strengthened and transformed by truth from the Word; where we're taught to pray, worship and serve; where we can be most certain that we're investing our time and abilities for eternity; where we can grow in our roles as friends, sons and daughters, husbands and wives, fathers and mothers. The church is God's specially designed place to start over, to grow and to change for the glory of God.
  • When you stop dating the church  you are going to experience all the other blessings that Jesus promised to His followers as the fruits of the truly abundant life.
Chapter 2: He Still Calls Her His Bride
  • Christ views the church (you and me) like a bridegroom sees his bride.
  • We should want God's heart for the church. If Christ loves the church, shouldn't we? 
    • Jesus is the only person who has the right to disown and give up on the Church. But He never has. And He never will. 
  • Let's take a look at the Church from heaven's perspective:
    • They are in awe of the church because the "manifold wisdom of God is being displayed, and the spiritual mystery hidden for ages past is being revealed. 
    • They see an amazing family. The power of the gospel is changing lives and creating a whole new kind of humanity. We have become God's children and members of one family.
    • They see a body. We're more than brothers and sisters in Christ. As we express our union with Him through service, worship, and love, we become the physical manifestation of our Savior on the earth. 
    • Heaven see the Church as a magnificent temple. God is creating a beautiful structure like no other. It is not made of stone or bricks but composed of living stones. (I envisioned the most beautiful Gothic cathedral in Europe that I had seen and then magnified it because we are more beautiful than that.) The church is the temple of God, the place where He specially resides and manifests His presence. We are the dwelling of God, our lives joined together in worship and service.
  • Eric Lane describes these together as: "To be a member of a family is to belong to a community bound by a common fatherhood. To be a stone in his temple means to belong to a worshipping community. To be part of a body means to belong to a living, functioning, serving, witnessing community." These are the main functions of an individual Christian which are meant to be fulfilled not on our won but together in the church. 
  • When we're saved from out sin, we become part of something bigger than ourselves - a family, a body, a temple. God is at work glorifying Himself and transforming lives, through the Church around the world. 
Chapter 3: Why We Really Need The Local Church
  • A local church is a visible, tangible, real-world expression of the body of Christ. 
  • When we fail to join a church we fail to obey Christ. 
  • It is in the local church that we are attached to God's work around the world
    • Think globally, love locally
    • The apostles weren't caught up in the universal church but were busy planting and caring for individual local churches
    • You can not separate God's big-picture plan from everyday service and involvement with people. 
  • One thing the church does best is to show non-Christians that the new life made available through Jesus Christ is the foundation for a new society. By living the gospel as a distinct community, they display the transforming effects of the gospel for the world. If we remain detached from each other they will not be able to see the larger picture. 
  • The local church is different from a campus ministry or bible study in the fact that the church practices Baptism, the Lord's Supper and Discipline to name a few ordinances. 
  • The church is there to verify or falsify our claims to be Christians. Many Christians today claim to be saved but are not living a changed life. One of the primary signs that we are told to look for in 1 John to identify evidence of true salvation in our lives is the "Genuine love for others" (1 John 2:9-10). 
    • Mark Dever puts it; "Do you want to know that your life is real? Commit yourself to a local group of sinners. Try to love them. Don't just do it for three weeks. Don't just do it for six months. Do it for years. And I think you'll find out, and others will, too, whether or not you love God. The truth will show itself." 
      • This is a scary thought for many. I know it was for me a few years ago when I was first taught this, but now I can see myself staying in one place for the Church and fellow Christians.
  • The church is also more than a group of Christians coming together for encouragement. It's where we benefit from the leadership of a pastor and our faith benefits from the involvement of others. Our salvation is not private but public. We need the ministry of others to: 
    • encourage us
    • help us to apply God's Word to our lives 
    • help us see our sins
  • Worship is another aspect of the Christian life that flourishes in community. We as individuals are God's temple but "we" collectively are God's temple and he manifests His presence in different ways when we are gathered to worship him. "Our corporate worship edifies and strengthens us and glorifies God in ways nothing else can."
  • We need to change our attitudes about the church. We need to stop attending church as a consumer, focused on comparing and complaining, but we need to become a communer who goes to meet God and express His love to others. 
Chapter 4: Join the Club 
  • What's your club? What are you passionate about? It's what you talk about, think about, and dream about. It's what you give your time to without complaint. It's what you find your identity in. It's what you're willing to sacrifice for. 
    • This is the kind of passion that we need to be giving to the church. 
  •  Here is what the New Testament teaches us on what a passionate involvement in a local church should look like. 
    • You join
    • You make the local church a priority
    • You try to make your pastor's job a joy
    • You find ways to serve
    • You give
    • You connect with people
    • You share your passion
      • These are also the essential elements of thriving in a church 
Chapter 5: Choosing your Church
  •  What defines you? We need to be first and foremost a Christian and then a woman/man/wife/husband, whatever it be, second. Being in a place that preaches and lives the gospel has to be the priority in choosing a church. 
  • When it comes to choosing a church we need to choose based on the criteria God's Word gives and not our own preferences and comfortableness.
  • These ten questions are to help you focus on the issues that matter most when finding a gospel preaching church. Is this a church:
    • where God's Word is faithfully taught?
    • where sound doctrine matters?
    • in which the gospel is cherished and clearly proclaimed?
    • committed to reaching non-Christians with the gospel?
    • whose leaders are characterized by humility and integrity?
    • where people strive to live by God's Word?
    • where I can find a cultivate godly relationships?
    • where members are challenged to serve?
    • that is willing to kick me out?
    • I'm willing to join "as is" with enthusiasm and faith in God? 
  •  Approach a church with the right attitude. Approach it with humility and ask God to help you see the good in each church. You want a church that teaches, values and lives God's word. 
  • We should consider moving to place ourselves in a local church where we can reap invaluable, eternal spiritual benefits. People do it all the time for jobs so why is it so hard to do it for the church?
  • Another great book to read after this book to go along with this chapter is "What is a Healthy Church"  by Mark Dever.  
 Chapter 6: Rescuing Sunday 
This was probably the most helpful chapter for me and the most thought provoking. There were many things in here that I had never really though about before. How many times have you woken up on a Sunday and been groggy, worshiped distractedly, woken up late or listened occasionally to the sermon? Well this chapter is for you then.
  •  Sunday for a child of God is the best day of the week. Those hours have a strategic and irreplaceable value. They're meant to be packed with promise, full of surprises, pulsing with life. 
    • It's a day to "receive and embrace as a privilege and a benefit, not as a task and drudgery." ~ Matthew Henry.
      • Wow. I know that there were times in the past where I felt like the latter half of this quote.
  • We need to see Sunday with new eyes. It's the anniversary of Jesus rising from the grave to defeat sin and death. It is also a day for us to come together as his people to glorify God, grow in our faith, and encourage one another, but through it all He is with us. 
  • Sunday should be a day we enjoy to the fullest for God's glory. It's a chance to take a breather from all the hectic pursuits of the week and reinvigorate ourselves spiritually. It's a way to prepare our hearts for all the challenges and temptations we'll face as the rest of the week unfolds.
  • Build your week around Sunday and not the other way around. Develop a plan for what happens before, during and after the Sunday gatherings. Here are some practical ways of doing this:
  • Before
    • Prepare our hearts
      •  It begins Saturday night
        • Get to bed on time
        • Ask yourself what activities will put you in a God-focused state of mind
        • Carve out time to read God's word and pray
        • Reflect on our need for the gospel  and humbly acknowledge any known sin in our lives.
      • Sunday morning
        • Wake up early to not only get ready  but to also spend some unhurried moments in prayer and the word. 
        • Take time to thank God for His word and goodness towards saving you, but also recount His many blessings in your life.
        • Take a look at the intrusions on your Sunday morning ie: news, magazines, video games etc.
  • During
    • Remember you are gathering with the people of God and you have come to worship Him and He will be present by His Holy Spirit. 
    • You are not here to be entertained, you are part of a congregation in front of the Audience of One. 
    • Focus your mind on the truths that you sing and the Person you are singing too.
    • Be careful how you hear 
      • Remember that when His Word is preached in a real sense God is speaking to us. 
      • How we listen and apply what we hear either honors or dishonors God.
      • Listening to preaching is a form of worship.
  • After
    • Come on the lookout for God and leave on the lookout for people. 
    • Our faith and love for God is always expressed in our love for others, so try to find people who are new in your church or who don't appear to know others.
    • Fellowship with others in the church and use the time to reflect together on the message.
  •  Don't take Sunday for granted. 
There is a chapter 7 but there isn't much to say about it other than the fact that we are called to love what Jesus loves and the church is what He loves. If you want to read more about His church and the apostles read the New Testament and you will see that the apostles did choose to love most what Jesus loves, and did tend His flock.  The question is, will we commit to passing on through His church in this generation the treasure of His glorious gospel?

Charles Spurgeon once referred to the local church as "the dearest place on earth." Hopefully after reading this book, the Bible and becoming a part of a local church you will understand this statement.

    Monday, October 3, 2011

    New England Ministry

    Last week I was given the opportunity to see the affect of Collegiate Ministry in the rest of New England. On Monday we headed to Boston for a Church Planting/Collegiate Ministry panel at MIT. It was interesting. While I wouldn't say that I agreed with everything they said and at times it did feel like maybe they had no idea what they were talking about, they were excited about church planting and collegiate ministry both which gave us a positive feeling.

    Later that week Hannah and I had ventured up to Worcester, MA to spend the day with one of the Collegiate Ministry leaders at Becker College. It was a very encouraging and informative day for us. We were able to see what a ministry looked like that was being pioneered and in it's 2nd year on campus. Even though there were not many students in the group, their commitment and the perseverance of the campus ministers to the growth and spread of the gospel on campus encouraged me greatly. A campus ministry is like a child. You just can't except it to be fully bloomed after a year. It takes time, care, and nourishment. It gave us a glimpse of what to prepare for when we try to begin a bible study at another campus in a couple months.

    Some of the best hot chocolate ever.  
    That weekend we spent in Lowell, MA with the Christian Student Fellowship at UMASS Lowell. Hannah and I were "spying" on their On Campus Retreat for ideas to bring back to Johnson & Wales to facilitate one of our own.
    The idea of an On Campus Retreat is actually fantastic. If you think about it many times a school's first retreat is a Fall retreat that is usually away from campus and it would be a freshman's or transfer students first time away. If they are not fully involved yet or don't know many people, how likely is it that they are going to attend that Fall Retreat. By having an On Campus Retreat first it gives the students and opportunity to get to know each other more and connect on a personal level. They wouldn't be traveling anywhere and it would help them to get involved. We spent the day Friday hanging out at local coffee shops (Brew'd Awakening) and cafes (The Bite). We spent the remainder of the weekend hanging out with friends and fellow ministry partners. I learned how to play KanJam, which is a new favorite of mine, and I also had Chick-fil-a for the first time in my life. Was it amazing? It wouldn't say that, but it was the best fast food I have had.

    All-in-all it was a very busy, but encouraging week. It was great to see all the work that has and is continuing to be done on the college campuses throughout New England to further the Gospel and make the glory of God known.

    Sunday, September 18, 2011

    New Year, New Journey

    We are into our third week of school here at Johnson & Wales and it seems like longer. Let me just catch you up on what has been happening so far with the Campus Ministry here and the 10:2b program.

      We began this school year with Student Activities Night, where all the clubs & organizations set up tables and provide the students with information on them. We had a very good turn out and had many interested students. We handed out over 100 cups which contained the clubs information, a list of gospel preaching churches, a calendar of events and a John Piper "Quest For Joy" booklet. We had gone back and forth on whether to had out the cups because we did not want to encourage drinking but then we figured that they were going to do it anyway and so why not give them a cup that might help them to question things or start conversations with. The funny thing is that last year we actually found a picture on facebook where the cup was being used and the caption read "The Christian Cup". Not quite what we thought but at least our information is there in their face every time they use the cup.

    Our first weekly meeting of Tuesday Night Truth was a blessing. We had about 40 students, both returning and new, turn out. We discussed the local church, what the bible says about joining one, how important it is to the growth of a christian and how Christian Student Fellowship is neither a church, nor a replacement for church. This is a very important command that we think the students should know straight away. Many students come to college and think that if they just find a christian group on campus then they will be fine. What many do not know though is that in joining with a local church not only are you obeying God but you are also helping your walking with him by being taught by pastors and elders whom the Lord has placed there and are able to speak into your life. You are also helping other further their walk with the Lord and furthering the kingdom. Your christian walk is not private but public.
     Hannah and I
    Since this first week we have held several events to get the students involved and get to know each other. Hannah (also a Semester Missionary) and I have been able to meet with several of the girls to grab coffee or lunch, just to get to know them and see where they are in their faith. We will also be meeting with some of them regularly for discipleship through reading a book.

    Over the next couple of weeks we will be pretty busy with conferences, beginning our bible studies, meeting with students and having events. This experience has been absolutely amazing so far. College students can do so much in their lives right now and they are the next generation in this world that needs to be poured into. It is amazing the people that the Lord brings to a certain place and into your lives. If you had asked me when I started school if I thought I would be here when I graduated I would have said no. Well plans change and they are out of our hands.     

    Sunday, September 11, 2011

    Gone But Never Forgotten

    Ten years ago today, I was a 13 year old military kid getting ready to fly out the next day because we were moving to New Jersey. We were at a friends house for dinner that night I remember seeing the tower and smoke on the tv. Our dads did not come home till around 11 that night because they had completely shut down the base and did on let anyone on or off. I don't think I realized the mass impact of what had happened and what this meant or the future. To me it just meant that we were not flying out the next and I could see my friends again. You see I had never lived in the states before and so I did not realize the effects of the terrorist acts on the United States and the world. Not only did the lives of Americans living in the United States change but the lives of those overseas changed too. The whole World was affected. I have often wondered what would have happened if we were meant to fly out the 11th instead of the 12th, but this is a question that will never be answered.

    I thank those people on Flight 93 who risked their lives to save hundreds of people. I thank the firefighters, policemen, volunteers and doctors who searched, rescued and cared for survivors so that they would be able to live another day. I thank the soldiers who through all of this were affected most of all in their careers and who risked their lives daily after this event to protect this country and others. But above all, I thank the LORD for protecting the many who survived that day and most of all for sending his Son to die on the cross for us sinners, who because of HIM we may one day rejoice in heaven with many of those who died that day and in the years since at the feet of the Lord Almighty.

    Sunday, May 29, 2011

    Memorial Day. Why Celebrate??

    Do you know why you celebrate Memorial Day or is it just another holiday where you get an extended weekend, have a BBQ and hang out? Here is why we celebrate memorial day.

    It all started in 1868 and was first known as Decoration Day because it was a day to honor the nation's Civil War dead by decorating their graves with flowers. Waterloo, N.Y. was declared as the birthplace of Memorial Day because they were one of the first to celebrate it and because they had made it an annual community-wide event where business were closed and residents decorated the graves of soldiers with flowers and flags. Congress declared it a national holiday in 1971and was to be celebrated on the last Monday of May.

    Have you ever wondered why people wear poppies on Memorial Day. It is because of Miona Michael and her reply to the poem "In Flanders Field" by John McCrae.

    In Flanders Fields
    John McCrae, 1915. 
    In Flanders fields the poppies blow
    Between the crosses, row on row
    That mark our place; and in the sky
    The larks, still bravely singing, fly
    Scarce heard amid the guns below.
    We are the Dead. Short days ago
    We lived, felt dawn, saw sunset glow,
    Loved and were loved, and now we lie
    In Flanders fields.

    Take up our quarrel with the foe:

    To you from failing hands we throw
    The torch; be yours to hold it high.
    If ye break faith with us who die
    We shall not sleep, though poppies grow
    In Flanders fields. 

    This was her reply:
    We cherish too, the Poppy red
    That grows on fields where valor led,
    It seems to signal to the skies
    That blood of heroes never dies.

    She thought of the idea to wear a poppy on Memorial Day and began to sell them to her friends, family and co-workers, with the money going to servicemen and women in need. This tradition has since been carried over to France and other countries where the money raised helps war orphans and widows. 

    Memorial Day is to celebrate the servicemen and women who have died fighting for our freedom and the freedom of others. This day is not just observed in America but in France as well. I attended a service today at the American Military Cemetery in St. Avold, France where more than 10,400 American Soldiers are buried. 10,400 buried outside of the United States and that is in one cemetery alone. Many of these soldiers do not have people/relatives who can easily come visit them and place flowers on their tomb. Seeing this sight today made me proud to be from a military family who chose to answer the call of their country to protect and defend. These are people that we should not be thankful to once a year but everyday as we go about in our freedom because if not for them we could be under another rule or country entirely. Not only should we remember the Americans but also the soldiers from other countries who allied together to help us and other nations retain their freedom from suppressive powers.    

    So the next time you get an extended weekend for a holiday you might want to research the holiday and see what you are actually celebrating. The traditions of Memorial Day have often been forgotten so the next time you celebrate this day, purchase a couple flowers and place them on the tombs of buried soldiers in your area, fly a flag outside your house/apartment or take a moment of silence to remember those who gave their lives for you to live the way you do.

    Sunday, May 22, 2011

    Operation Write Home

    This is something that my heart has been set on doing for a while. Operation Write Home is a support group that makes cards for soldiers in the Middle East to write in and mail home to their families.  

    Cards such as holiday cards, get well, I love you, thinking of you, miss you, happy birthday and so on. Not only do they make cards but YOU can make cards as well and send them in to be dispersed.


    The reason this has been such a burden on my heart and mind the past couple of months is because my daddy was in Iraq and he used these cards to mail home. I would get a card from him almost every week and sometimes it was the highlight of my day.


    I have wanted to make some cards and mail them to the troops because that card from mommy or daddy could maybe just make the day of another son or daughter. I haven't been able to start this venture because of school but I hope to begin soon.


    Maybe even have a card making party one day. If you enjoy making cards and are creative then maybe this is an opportunity for you too. Let me know we might be able to get together. The website though has more information on the requirements of the cards and helpful links to help with ideas. Below are some sample images of cards I have received. 

    Tuesday, May 17, 2011

    Contemporary Plated Dessert

    I just finished my second to last lab ever, Contemporary Plated Desserts and I loved it. The thing that I loved about the class is that we were given ingredients to work with that you wouldn't think would go in a dessert. We also had certain themes for each day where we had to use ingredients from that country in the dessert. This class gave me the opportunity to experiment and think outside the box, mixing flavors and textures.

    Saturday, April 16, 2011

    Limitless

    This trimester I am taking Psychology and we have recently begun talking about the brain, it's different internal regions and the receptors used to function. This has all been pretty interesting so when my roommate wanted to see Limitless yesterday I was all for it.
    The story is about a normal down on his luck wannabe writer (Eddie) who is dealing with writer's block, his girlfriend just broke up with him and he runs into his ex-brother-in-law. His brother-in-law decides to help him out and gives him one pill called NZT that is supposed to help clear his mind. He takes it and all of a sudden is brain is working at 100% rather than 20%. (We can only access 20% of our brains) He is more aware, he thinks clearer, is smarter, more confident than any man alive, and everything that he has seen, read and heard is organized and instantly available to him. After the pill wears off he sees his brother-in-law again because he wants more. He bargains for more than he wants when he discovers his brother-in-law has been murdered and he takes his stash. He starts to rise to the top of financial world and draws the attention of top mogul Carl Van Loon, who sees Eddie as an asset and gives him the biggest merger, in the financial world, to head up. Along the way Eddie is being chased by hit men who want this drug and he has to keep taking it to elude them. Along the way he discovers that in order to stay alive he has to keep taking the drug or else he will slip into a coma and die.
    Now I'm not going to give away the ending although I pretty much just outlined the whole movie but I just wanted to talk about the idea of this drug. The possibility of a drug that will let you access your whole brain is scary. I mean the thought of it is cool but when you think about it, it's dangerous.

    First, it would be amazing to be smart, to not have to go to school anymore and to have full access to your brain, but there is a reason why we can't. God created us this way, he designed us and has a reason for why we can only access 20% of our brains. If we could all be the way Eddie was in the movie, would we need God? He wants to to rely fully on him but with a pill like NZT or natural full access to our brains would we become a world full of selfishness and idolatry, not that we aren't already, but would it be more intense than it is now? Would we idolize ourselves even more?

    Secondly, there is a reason why we have a conscious and subconscious. This was one thing I noticed about the film. If our subconscious locks away memories that we suppress, then why when Eddie had full access to his brain, was he not shocked at all the things that he had suppressed for some reason because it was damaging or traumatizing? When people have remembered something that their brain has put away to never remember again, they usually have to go to therapy to get through it. With NZT would we all have to go to therapy or would we just suck it up and deal with it with the possibility of going insane? Were we created with a subconscious so that we would be able to function and fulfill the purpose that God has created us for; to glorify Him and to spread His word to all the nations.

    What do you think? I think this is an interesting concept and makes one wonder.    

    Tuesday, April 5, 2011

    Russia 2010

    I went to Russia again this Spring Break for the third time and I thought it was the best trip to date. This year the school supported each of the students half the cost of the trip, which covered the flights and visas. 72 hours before we were to leave for the trip we were told that there was a possibility the school was going to cancel the trip. 48 hours, Wednesday March 23rd, before our departure date our Campus Minister was told the school was pulling their support. This left us in a state of relief and confusion. We all thought we were not going to go on the trip and then after some conversation with the people at the International Mission Board it was decided that it was best for the witness of Christ and the local church that the students still go.
    We all met that night at 10pm to discuss the options, the reason to still go and to pray hard. To be honest many of us were relieved the trip was canceled because it had been a stressful trimester and week with finals. Although we had a relief about the trip, we all agreed that we should still go and realized that if God wanted us to go on the trip he would raise the money we needed. We had to raise $5,200 in less than 24 hours.
    The next day we took tests and contacted family members, friends and recent alumni to ask for their support. By the miraculous work of God we raised more than enough money and by 6pm that Thursday we had our airplane tickets.


    The following day, Friday March 25th, we were on our way to Russia and excited to see the work that God would be doing there. We landed in Moscow fine and left for Zavolzh'ye Saturday evening. Seeing the people we had met the yeas before was exciting and brought us so much joy. It was amazing to see the work that the LORD had been doing at the Baptist church there to grow it and the people there with sharing the gospel. We went to four or five different schools this year, which gave us the opportunity to meet more students and build more relationships. We went to a teaching college in Gorodetts where we met students who were learning to be English teachers. Later that day we went to the Orthodox church in that same town and were given a tour of it. Orthodox is somewhere between Catholicism and Greek Orthodox. They believe that Mary is more forgiving and just than God and that is why they pray to her. They believe that if you touch certain pictures, icons, and the footprint of Mary (yes this was sewn into a pillow) then you will be healed. It was very sad and broke my heart for them. The tour guide really seemed to believe everything she was saying too.
    We took part in an English competition at School No 15. The students were in groups by school and there was one American person in each group. The competition was to go around to the different stations and answer questions on English grammar, movies, food etc. The one thing that we Americans had to do was memorize all the names of the people in our group and their hobbies. It was a lot but I succeeded, as did many of us surprisingly :) While there we held an English Club at the church, where people from the church and surrounding community comes to learn English. However many people are turned away by the fact that it is held at a Baptist Church and are afraid of them or of becoming one of them. I am happy to say though that some of the people who have been attending the English Club have become Christians and members of the church. We went ice skating with the students on one of the days as well as a way to talk to them without the teachers around and to build relationships with them. Russians we were told do not usually talk about religion, politics and such things unless you have been friends for a couple years. This is why building relationships with the students and continuing them when we return to the United States is such a key aspect to what we are trying to accomplish and help the church there to do.


    Our last day in Zavolzh'ye we were given a tour of the town by one of the English teachers and her students. This English teacher was the lady who had set up most of our visits to the different schools and had us over for dinner one night. She is also not a Christian and barely goes to the Orthodox church, but when she heard that there was a possibility the trip would be canceled, that was the first time she prayed. That evening we had a pizza party planned for the students to come and for us to enjoy time with them outside of the schools and in a more relaxed atmosphere. About 60 students came, which was amazing. Some of us were able to talk about what a Baptist was and clarify the fact that they do not drink the blood of their children. We did clarify that we were Christians during our conversations but not many students had questions or the topic was changed. Hopefully with the continued growth of relationships we will be able to knock down some of those walls. All in all it was a very productive week and thought to be the best trip so far.
    We returned to Moscow on Friday morning, March 4th, and spent to days with one of the missionary families in Moscow. We spent the whole day with them learning about them, why they were there and ways we could help them in the future. We cooked for them as well. It was funny how it ended up. At one point all the women were in the kitchen cooking and the guys were in the living room talking. I had to laugh at it in my head but it was fun because we were able to talk to the wife and see her point of view on being a missionary in a foreign country as well as being a wife and mother. It was very encouraging and you could tell that they had been very blessed. We spent the next day relaxing and walking around an open air market. That Sunday we flew home on a very long flight.
    If you have more questions about Russia feel free to come and talk to me or post a comment or send an e-mail. I would be more than happy to speak with you.
    One thing I ask of you is that you would keep some prayers in mind and if you remember could you include them in your prayer times.
    Prayer 
    1. Baptist Church in Russia - that they would be encouraged and keep growing in the sharing of the gospel.

    2. The relationships we have begun to build with students - that we would continue to build on them.

    3. For the English teacher - that she would come to know Christ.

    4. That we would take what we saw in Russia and apply it to our lives here. That we would take advantage of the fact that we live in a free society where we can talk about religion openly and people are willing to listen.


    Thank you for all your prayers and support.



        



    Tuesday, February 1, 2011

    God works in mysterious ways

    My sister finally made it back home safe and sound. While she was there she was able to see my dad a couple times. God is good.

    While sitting in Mission Support School last week surrounded by other missionaries God sent to spread his gospel throughout the United States. While there I really did discover the meaning of the military being a small world. I discovered that one of the college ministers from Alabama, his wife, grew up in Germany for a couple years right where my family is now. I also found out that one of the missionary husbands in New Orleans is a chaplain in the National Guard. Well he was my dad's pastor in Iraq for 3 months. It's crazy how God brings all these people into our lives and while we may not know the reason for it then but we will one day.

    Tuesday, January 4, 2011

    Prayers

    My sister is in Iraq for three weeks for her work. She is there to do inventory for AAFES. I pray that she stays safe and that she is able to see our dad while she is there. I wish her the best of luck and all our love.